bites of tuna melt. “It seems as if the counselor told the woman to replace ‘lesbian love’ with ‘Jesus love.’ But doesn’t that downplay the differences between these two loves?” I nodded interestedly, and he continued: “In her desire for other women, the counselee wanted human relationship. She wanted to know and touch and see and be involved with another human person, whose facial expressions she could read and whose embrace she could rest in. But the counselor suggested she look to Jesus, who is